This year has upended all of our assumptions and expectations. It has brought uncertainty and untold losses. The corona virus pandemic is always in the background of whatever we do and this holiday season will be dramatically different from times past. Most of us will not be gathering in large groups or traveling. We may not even splurge for holiday presents given all of the economic dislocation. I’ve composed my annual gift guide in the spirit of tradition and for the enjoyment I get creating it. If it gives you a bit of inspiration or a temporary escape, then I have achieved my goal. Health and healing top my wish list, but here are the other gifts on my radar…
Masks have become an indelible part of our lives, so why not tailor them to your tastes and interests? Book Riot has some cute options for the bookworms in your life.
I am obsessed with hand sanitizer, but make it pretty, especially if it will be standing on the hallway table, kitchen counter or powder room shelf. These are attractive and, most importantly, effective. With our heightened sense of germ-awareness, any one of these would pass inspection.
Zoom has taken over our lives, but who actually looks good on that screen?! But a ring/halo light would reduce shadows in your face and give you that all-around even glow. Since working from home and virtual events will still be a part of the foreseeable future, it’s worth the investment for yourself or anyone else who is totally Zoomed-out!
Working-from-home might also mean working-from-your bed, so an acrylic tray would be the ideal platform for doing business or having breakfast in bed!
I was absolutely riveted by The Queen’s Gambit—the storyline, the acting, the fashion! It’s the best series I’ve seen this year and has become Netflix’s most watched limited series to date. The game of chess has skyrocketed in popularity thanks to Anya Taylor-Joy’s brilliant portrayal of tortured prodigy, Beth Harmon. Unfortunately, I’m the only one in my family who doesn’t play, but I think a beginner or expert would enjoy these beautiful sets. Maybe it’s time I finally learned…
Another favorite this year was the film On the Rocks, written and directed by Sofia Coppola. Rashida Jones subtly depicts the growing anxiety of a mother suffering from writer’s block who also suspects her husband is having an affair. She displays her literary bona fides with a retro-looking The Paris Review tee shirt and Strand Bookstore tote bag. Perfect for that frustrated writer!
Social distancing is still a reality and if we do gather, we try to meet outdoors, so a comfy blanket has become the new fashion statement! Swedish family company Klippan Yllefabrik was founded in 1879 and their throws come in all textures, colors, patterns and sizes. Or why not get a monogram set from Land’s End for your family and friends? If you pair a blanket with these soft shearling Birkenstocks, you may never leave the house again!
Iconic singer/songwriter Lenny Kravitz perfected the blanket-chic look long ago and I have been crushing on him since he first burst onto the scene as Romeo Blue and married boho goddess, Lisa Bonet. I even give them a shout-out in my upcoming novel! His new memoir would be the coolest gift for a music lover.
Entertaining and cooking at home have replaced going out for fun. These new titles from leading tastemakers, Aerin Lauder and Ina Garten, would make enticing gifts for beloved homebodies. With all of the fabulous ideas and moodboards, this trend may be here to stay!
Books and cozy candles continue to be my hero presents. This new coffee table book charting the origins of abstraction would be a welcome addition to any art library. I also love it since the cover features a work by Hilma af Klint, the Swedish female artist who is now credited with pioneering the movement long before her male counterparts. Ex Libris: 100 Books to Read and Reread by Michiko Kakutani is a stylish and stimulating compendium. Finally, Diptyque never disappoints with their holiday candle collection and Bibliothèque, my favorite candle scent from ByRedo, can also be found as a room spray!
If you know someone who is missing NYC as much as I am, these swanky playing cards may do the trick. Along with the vibrant cast of characters in Carolyn Suzuki’s Book Club puzzle the recipient will get some good, old-fashioned fun. The Puzzle Huddle line of diversity-focused puzzles will also keep kids entertained. I love the premise of these trivia cards, Black Card Revoked, a nostalgia-filled game celebrating Black American popular culture. The 100 Books Bucket List Scratch-Off Poster is also a great way to keep a bibliophile motivated.
People have very strong opinions about Netflix’s Emily in Paris. I haven’t watched the series, but media sightings of her classic camera iPhone case were everywhere–a whimsical gift for a teen or best girlfriend. I still remember the original Polaroid camera in its heyday. Now they are back with this refurbished retro version and it’s a fun, ironic gift for the gadget-fixated techie or sentimental vintage buff.
Wellness and self-care were a critical part of coping with this year’s challenges and maintaining our physical and mental health should continue to be a priority. The products above are intended to nurture our well-being and would be thoughtful gifts for the devotee or someone who wants to get into the zen zone, but needs a bit of motivation.
This multi-device charging stand would be a space-saving gift for the person who needs lots of charging cables (i.e. most of us!) and the earbud cleaning kit, emergency tech kit and miniature screen cleaner kit would make perfect stocking stuffers.
My neck and shoulders always get stiff from sitting in front of the computer or hunching over my phone for too long. I’d love this back and neck massager to loosen the stubborn knots. A thoughtful gift for someone who cannot go for an in-person massage just yet.
Svenskt Tenn is my favorite design store in Stockholm and their festive holiday windows and displays are always a sight to behold. Even if you don’t buy anything, it’s worth a trip for the visual inspo. Their signature Dagg vase probably resides in every Stockholm abode, but the rich green hue is a fitting seasonal accent. Another favorite is this pewter matchbox inscribed with: “The world is a book and he who stays at home reads only one page.” Both pieces are high-quality gifts the receiver will cherish.
I’ve been a fan of
Rayo and Honey for some time now and this hanging pennant reflects my mood of late. I’m doing my best to be less anxious, less stressed, less outraged. “Joy is an act of resistance” may be the mindset we need right now to cope with our present circumstances.
Finally, I do believe there is more joy in giving than receiving and so many in our global community are in need. If you have the possibility, please consider donating to Covid-19 relief charities such as the World Health Organization (WHO). Other highly rated charitable resources are Americares, United Way Worldwide, Oxfam, Doctors Without Borders, Save The Children, UNICEF and The Red Cross. Donating to a food pantry or other frontline organizations within your local community would have the most direct impact, so please do some research about one of these groups. By working together, helping one another, being mindful and responsible, we will get through this difficult time. I’m hopeful about the promising vaccine news, but until then, wishing you and your dearest a safe, healthy and happy Holiday Season!